TYPE OF INCIDENT: Man arrested for Domestic Violence and felony warrant after three-hour standoff.

DATE AND TIME OF INCIDENT: 11/02/2025 at 3:22 p.m.

LOCATION OF INCIDENT: 1368 E. Main Street, El Cajon, CA

On November 2nd, 2025, at around 3:22 p.m., a woman called 9-1-1, reporting that her husband had assaulted her, strangled her, and refused to let her leave their motel room. El Cajon Police officers responded, and safely evacuated the woman, while the man fled into the room and barricaded.

During the investigation, officers learned the man committed multiple violent felonies, and had an outstanding felony warrant for sex registration violations. 

Crisis negotiators attempted to communicate with the man, who refused to surrender. After less-lethal Pepper Ball rounds were unsuccessful, El Cajon Police SWAT officers used a flashbang and additional Pepper Ball rounds, prompting the man to exit the bathroom and peacefully surrender without further incident.

The suspect has been identified as 44-year-old Ruben Castro, who was booked into San Diego County Jail.  

Prepared by:

Lieutenant Brandon Stanley

Patrol Watch Commander